Dear friend who is trying to understand but just doesn’t know where to start…

I realise this is hard to wrap your head around, outside of your experience and I want to answer your questions honestly. You may not agree with or like some of my explanation but I want to be as open as I can in the hope that you will come to see how I’ve reached this point of acceptance and peace that you seem so find so puzzling! Continue reading

Daring to be different.

When I found out that my husband was transgender I did what we all do nowadays, I turned to google; I wanted to learn, I wanted to understand.I began to find all the information about what it means to be trans that I needed. But where were the people like me? The people who loved a trans person, the wives, the partners, the families, surely they must be out there? Continue reading